7 Realizations You Need to Accept and Embrace
In life, we all have our moments of utmost realization, and everything changes around us all the time. And we can not dismiss the fact that life is more about the journey and less about the destination; why? Because there are moments in life when the simple things become seemingly evident, and we do not want to miss out on what life is truly about, so we stop and dwell on the moment of certainty. However, no matter how hard we try to make our lives stable and constant, change continues to lurk in the shadows. Life is a continuous flow and, these realizations will allow you to accept and embrace life as it comes.
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.” – Rumi
There are a million things that are worth loving in life, even in our highs and lows, for we can not revel in our soaring highs until we learn how to appreciate our lows. We need to accept life completely and realize all the challenges and uncertainties, embrace the chaos and turn it into a party!
7 Realizations in life that you need to accept and embrace:
You are a work in progress
Be proud of it! The need to continue learning means that you have the chance to improve yourself and grow. So, do not be so hard on yourself because being a work in progress is such a wonderful thing.
You need to love yourself first.
When you learn how to love yourself first, life becomes more satisfying, and only then can you create real change within you. And you will realize how fulfilling life can be because your happiness will not depend on anyone. Self-love is pure love that you can radiate to anyone around you.
Realizations in Life: You do not need someone to make you feel whole
Do not seek something without looking into yourself for your own needs. You have to realize and recognize that only you know what is best for your life. You are a complete person; trust yourself, listen to your intuition, and believe in yourself. Do not fill in a void that was never there!
You choose the people you accept and allow in your life.
Why? Because life is short, and you do not want to waste your time and energy with people who are not worth keeping. Choose people who will choose you right back, choose someone who will share the full array of chaotic colors life has to offer.
You have to embrace the madness and insanity.
Normal is boring, and always remember that you are unique even in your craziness. You have to set yourself free and do not mind what others think of you because only then can you find true happiness. Embrace your free-spirited soul and embrace it now.
You have to learn how to forgive
Forgiveness is a very soothing and powerful gift you have to give yourself because forgiveness is something we do for ourselves than others. And you have to realize that the only way you can let go and move on is to forgive yourself first.
Realizations in Life: You are worthy
Know your worth and stand up for what you deserve and stop questioning yourself. Amazing things can happen when you finally realize your worth because you have so much potential, so do not squander it. Make positive changes and build yourself up!
Let these realizations change how you view the world or life itself. Life will never be perfect, and that is the beauty of it, and you have to learn how to ride the waves! And only with your difficulties can you truly transform into who you want to become, better, stronger, and more lust for life.
Life is fleeting in one way or another. Savor every moment and live like it is your last!
P.S. Be grateful for another breath and realize the magnificent moment you have today!
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30 Comments
Ben
I love these. I think my two favorites are recognizing that you’re a work in progress and that you control who you let into your life. Great stuff.
Brianne
Love these. I’ve found in my life that forgiveness is key. When you walk around holding grudges against people, it just weighs you down.
Kuntala
I think all of these are so important. Not realizing these things holds us back, keeping us stagnant and trapped in the past.
Marina
The one about choosing the persons in your life is really important. So many people sucked up my energy and not giving anything in return. We must choose our friends wisely, and nurture the ones we love. All other steps are so true also… Never thought about it much. Thank you
kidneyfornikki
Choosing the people you allow into your life is the most important one to me. THe people in your life will influence you and the events that happen to you — you have to choose wisely. All of these are great!
My Haute Talk
Forgiveness is so important. Holding grudges can eat away at us. These are all good tips!
Laura
These are some of the most difficult aspects of life for some of us to learn to accept, but once you do, you feel so FREE. Self love and self-improvement is so important. And as you mentioned, we all need to remember that we are ever-changing and a work in progress. Thanks for sharing!
Cam
These are very realistic and refreshing. Most tips are unbearably positive and that’s just not how life really works. Roll through the punches and keep your head up.
gallowayhydia
Love this post and your website!
Amy
I have found in life that there will be ups and downs, starts and stops, exciting and mundane. Learning to forgive other and accept yourself good bad and ugly goes a long way in making a happy and healthy life. Wonderful job summing it up!
Kelly Bolen
Love , love, love! This is something I really need to see today! Thank you for sharing!
Nikki Wayne
Thanks for reminding us to love and accept ourselves.
Ambuj Saxena
Thanks for a mid-week wakeup call to appreciate life! I think one of the last points in your post ‘You have to learn to forgive’ is very important. I have seen many people who dont forgive and forget and as life goes on, what remains inside them is negativity so we all need to learn to forgive as we all are a work in progress.
emman damian
We are all a work in progress! We will always improve and there will always be “changes” in our life. We should play along with it and be better.
foodopium
It was a nice post to go through….everything you say and resonate with my what I have seen and experienced. Especially one has to feel he/she is worth that gives gives loads of self confidence and forgiveness is one thing one must learn and not carry baggage along. Which can harm one…! thanks for such an inspirational write up !
Sabina Green
I love this post! It sometimes takes a while to realise all of these things but once you do life is just magic.
Krysten Quiles
These are definitely good realizations to come to, thank you for this.
Toni
These are so true!! Realizations are so important in life.
tweenselmom
We are all a work of progress, and we need to learn to accept this. Also, everyone goes at their own pace so don’t worry if you think you’re not catching up.
Claudia Blanton
yes, yes, and more yes! I want to plaster the point that that you made about choosing what people to allow and accept into your life, pretty much everywhere! It is so important to not make space for toxic people! That is essential self-care! Blessings!
Emily Fata
Yes, we’re all works in progress. We have to learn to not be so hard on ourselves.
Arūnas
I agree that life is more about the journey and less about the destination. Cos life is short. Only being here and now we are eternal.
Jim
Very powerfull realizations for everyone out there. Self- love is very important indeed!
Dr. Elise Ho
Learning to forgive and self-love also go hand in hand. We must start with forgiving ourselves so that we can forgive others.
Fabulous Perks
These are absolutely amazing! Learning to embrace and accept is definitely a process. I love this!
Norma
Amazing blog, super interesting and entertaining. Thanks for sharing!
Rahul Bid
This is wonderful.
Mae Loureto
Thank you!
Sim @ SimsLife.co.uk
Such a wonderful uplifting post! We are always a work in progress, every day is a day we can work on ourselves and better ourselves and yes, we are always worthy – never forget that x
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